Misconceptions about Tantric Sex

Many people have this misconception that Tantra is is all about controlling sex so you can have it for hours and hours in multiple different positions.  Tantric sex is much more than anything you will ever experience with just regular sex.  It would take more than a a web page to describe what tantric practice is all about and especially what a session is like.

Sometimes I get asked silly questions like “will I come at the end of session” or is “it just a massage with a handjob”

For me tantra is a lifestyle choice more than anything. Primarly it is the art of understanding the energy flow, of communicating deeply from your feelings, both concious and unconscious. It is the art of connecting with ourselves first, both our feelings and our bodies and then when we are able to connect with ourselves we are able to connect with others.  Most of us connect at some level most of the time but not on all levels. Tantric sex is about creating love and romance and taking your sexual pleasure to a higher level allowing you to reach your fullest potential of healthy vitality and passion, and spiritual enlightenment. It is about connecting verbally, and non verbally, spiritually, sexually, emotionally. The whole lot all rolled into one.

I teach tantra with a passion. Why, because from my own experience it has helped me clear limiting beliefs I had about myself, about sexuality and to accept all myself “unconditionally”. I realise how powerful my own sexual energy was and the more intention I have towards helping another person embrace that in themselves, the more it comes through me.

Tantra is the highest expression of love and about learning your own connection with yourself and another you are able to become the ultimate lover.  Tantra allows us to unite sexuality with spirituality. Working as a spiritual healer as well, I find that I combine both tantric practice with spiritual healing and intuitively switch between the two states.  To someone who may have never experienced tantric practice through sex we are able to become far more enlightened than we would normally be able to by using our sexual energy in a positive way.

It is one of the few practices that allows you combine spiritual and sexuality and allows us to connect to that part of ourselves that we are separate to most of the time the disconnection between mind, body and spirit.

As you balance each of the energy centres in the body you are able to raise the vibrations within your body, increase your levels of pleasure from one energy centre to another. A divine connection between heaven and earth. (See diagram)

During session I am fully present in my body and become a giver of tantric massage. Even if the client is not participating in an energy exchange with me I usually end up feeling in a higher state of happiness and bliss just by giving.

The reasons for teaching meditation and breath work during sessions is to allow your body to transform into a state of total relaxation so you are able to receive and detach from the lower energies in your body and start to receive orgasmic energy to flow through your whole body through touch and massage. I will then guide you to channel this orgasmic cosmic energy up through the chakras toward the brain, through the microcosmic orbit where it will be transposed into pure energy and experienced as ecstasy.

So long as you remain open and come with an open heart. The majority of my clients are able to achieve higher levels of consciousness and ecstasy even on their very first visit.