Twin Flames on the sexual plane

By Sarah Louise

Twin flames and soul mates

Through my tantric work I met my twin flame, at least on a “spiritual” level. It was the most spiritually awakening moment I had in my whole life. I had the most amazing mind blowing cosmic orgasm in the privacy of my own bedroom while I was alone. It was not about sex it was about having a real soul connection with someone outside of myself but they were there in the room with me. The whole room was shaking with the sexual charged energy, including my bed! and I wasn't even moving an inch.

We all have soul connections with our lovers when we make love.  However, I confused what I believe to be a twin flame connection with the partner that I was seeing at the time. Having met so many soul mates in the past I mistakedly thought that he was the "one" I had finally met in both a physical and spiritual incarnation, I truly believe he was the one I had the connection with.

Throught my soul journey I realised, in hindsight, that I had the "vibration" for finding my twin flame and had met someone in the Ethereal or spiritual realm but had attached a physical manifestation to my lover because I confused it with the sex we were having. Our relationship was very sexually charged but it our relationship certainly wasn't based on a tantric way of living.  Although the sexual energy was tantric and spiritual it was an energetic one way street with me doing the giving. I started to feel very drained of my energy and lifeforce rather than the other way round. 

The world is far more metaphysical than we can possibly imagine and it was not until it was too late I realised my life force had been zapped out of my by a sexual narcissist energy vampire.  Being an empath I didn't pick up on it for some time as I would often confuse someones feelings with my own.

I wasn't quite quite ready to met my twin flame. If he was my twin flame, he would still be on the same path as me spiritually, he would not have chosen to stay with someone else however unsatisfactory his life was and he wouldn't have been a narcissist.

I am positive my twin flame is just around the corner, in this lifetime. Some people have already met their twin flames in this life but one or other partner has evolved at a spiritual rate faster than their twin flame and when that happens it can cause conflict and even cause them to break up.

We all have many soul mates throughout our lives but the twin flame connection is a very different sexual energy altogether. One can and do have many soul mates but one has only one twin soul.

The energy between twinsouls is unlike any energy relationship you will ever find. Do not mistake it for a soulmate relationship.

Please read this beautiful article on Twin Flames and soul mates

My journey towards finding my twin flame and my spiritual path has been a sometimes difficult one but certainly interesting one.  

Thankfully the above relationship is long over and finished but I shared this story with you so that you become aware how delicate our sexual energies really are and how important it is to nurture them.  At the same time once we are back in our sexual power through tantric living, we do not attract those types of people in our lives.